「There are no right answers to wrong questions.」–Ursula K. Le Guinhtml
錯誤的問題是得不到正確的結果的架構
你的結果: 學會如何問關鍵的問題來幫助你當即改善你的結果less
在30天敏捷結果:開篇中說到接下來咱們將進行敏捷結果練習,前一篇學習了19:你在爲誰作事?,今天咱們要進行Getting Result練習的第20天:好的問題能夠得到好的結果(Day 20 — Ask Better Questions, Get Better Results)dom
問問題是一個須要本身不斷髮生的事情,你問的越好對你來講能夠得到更多。經過改善你問本身的問題,你能夠改善你生活中不一樣熱點區域的生活質量。ide
爲何要問問題
問對問題能夠幫助咱們平衡、聚焦,作出更好的決策,更有效地進行優先級排定:post
- 問對問題=好的回答
無論這個問題是你進行自我對話仍是會議討論,問對問題都是很是重要的。若是把問問題和回答問題做爲一個流程來看,那麼你想得到好的回答則必定須要提出好的問題。就像咱們常常逛技術論壇同樣,你發帖求助的回答率與你提出的問題以及提問方式有關。
- 問題=關注點
經過改變你的問題能夠改變咱們的關注點,這可讓咱們快速的切換視角。例如,加入你要作一個項目,你可能會問「我有什麼資源來作這個項目」,若是你感受資源不夠時你就會消極;可是若是你換一種問題「若是沒有資源、時間限制我會如何作這個項目?」那麼你會想辦法去解決資源問題。
- 問題=心裏交流
經過問題進行自我溝通,可讓本身得到心裏的更多力量。例如,咱們在作一件事情以前,問問本身「爲何」要作,找出激勵本身的情感式動力,這會讓本身實現結果更有效,這也是「爲何」三個字帶來的力量。
- 問題=機會
咱們在作產品架構時會有一個市場需求文檔模板,這裏首先就是列出市場問題,後面就會跟着市場機會,經過問題提出解決方案可能就會創造出不少機會。
關於問題的諺語
學習
- 「A child can ask questions that a wise man cannot answer.」—Unknown
- 「A prudent question is one-half of wisdom.」 – Francis Bacon
- 「An answer is always a form of death.」—John Fowles
- 「It is not every question that deserves an answer.」 — Publilius Syrus
- 「No question is so difficult to answer as that to which the answer is obvious.」 — Karl Otto von Schonhausen Bismarck
- 「Quality questions create a quality life. Successful people ask better questions, and as a result, they get better answers.」 — Anthony Robbins
- 「Questions are never indiscreet. Answers sometimes are.」 – Publilius Syrus
- 「The man who questions opinion is wise; the man who quarrels with fact is a fool.」–Frank A Garbutt
- 「The only questions that really matter are the ones you ask yourself.」 –Ursula K. LeGuin
- 「The uncreative mind can spot wrong answers, but it takes a very creative mind to spot wrong questions.」 —Antony Jay
- 「We learn more by looking for the answer to a question and not finding it than we do from learning the answer itself.」—Lloyd Alexander
- 「When we have arrived at the question, the answer is already near.」–Ralph Waldo Emerson
- 「You can tell whether a man is clever by his answers. You can tell whether a man is wise by his questions」.—Naguib Mahfouz
改善結果的一些問題ui
我曾經也說過,一我的自我成長最簡單的就是問本身一些問題,在我的管理:從昨天的一個設計評審來談如何與人交流你的設計思路、我的管理:寫書以前應該回答的幾個問題、30天敏捷結果(19):你在爲誰作事?、30天敏捷生活(6): 你的生活目標是什麼?中都提出了不少問題。下面羅列一些問題的分類和示例,我相信對你應該會有所幫助:this
分類 |
問題 |
通用問題 |
- 是正確的人在作正確的是嗎?
- 應該作什麼正確的事情?
- 這個場景下最好作什麼?
- 你的組織限制或者支持你了嗎?
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行動 |
- 一步我最好作什麼?
- 下一步?
- 有什麼行動?
- 你如今能作的最簡單事情是什麼?
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效率和效能 |
- 最有效的是什麼?
- 這是否是高效的?
- 你進展快速,而且方向正確嗎?
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目的和目標 |
- 你想實現什麼?
- 你用什麼來檢驗你是否成功了?
- 這些是你真正想要的目標仍是其餘人的目標呢?
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學習 |
- 你的榜樣是誰?
- 你想學習別人哪三個方面?
- 哪三件事情你進展得很好?
- 哪三件事情須要改善?
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激勵 |
- 你想要作嗎?
- 你喜歡作嗎??
- 你享受這個過程嗎?
- 什麼東西激勵了你?
- 你能夠更好一種更好的激勵嗎?
用三個故事驅動你的一週就是須要你使用自我激勵的方式生成故事
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時間管理 |
- 你花了多少時間在這上面?
- 你應該花多長時間在這上面?
- 如今是最好的時刻嗎?
- 如今最好作什麼?
- 你在20%的問題上花了80%的時間嗎?
- 你如何進行精力管理來更有效地使用你的時間?
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價值 |
- 這件事重要嗎?
- 這件事意義不一樣嗎?
- 誰以爲它有價值?你仍是其餘人?
- 若是其餘人以爲有價值,它是否與你的價值有衝突,或者是否一致?
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用上面的表格做爲找出好問題的開始,可是找出好問題的要點是這些問題必須對你起做用,你須要持續的給你的問題庫中補充對你有用的問題(若是你不知道對生活的問題,能夠參考本篇後面附上的生活自問列表)。你會發現,有些簡單的問題可讓你遠離沮喪去找出方案,具備創造力,而且可以找出下一步要作的事情。idea
本次練習要作的
- 找出一個能夠幫助你得到更好結果的一個自問的問題
- 找出一個對你不起做用的問題,換一個更有效的問題來改善本身的結果
最後我附上一個101 Important Questions To Ask Yourself in Life
- Who are you?
- What are you passionate about?
- What are the achievements you are most proud of?
- What are you most grateful for in life?
- What are the most important things to you in life?
- How would you describe yourself?
- What are your values? What do you represent? What do you want to embody?
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- Do you love yourself?
- Why? Why not?
- How can you love yourself more today?
- What is your ideal self? What does it mean to be the best you?
- Look at your life now. Are you living the life of your dreams?
- If you have one year left to live, what would you do?
- If you have one month left to live, what would you do?
- If you have one week left to live, what would you do?
- If you have one day left to live, what would you do?
- If you have an hour left to live, what would you do?
- If you have one minute left to live, what would you do?
- What would you do today if there is no more tomorrow?
- What are the biggest things you’ve learned in life to date?
- What advice would you give to yourself 3 years ago?
- If you are yourself 1 year from the future, how would you advise the you now?
- Is there something you’re still holding on to? Is it time to let it go?
- What are you busy with today? Will this matter 1 year from now? 3 years? 5 years?
- What are your Quadrant 2 tasks?
- What opportunities am I looking for?
- How can I create these opportunities?
- What are your biggest goals and dreams?
- If you are to do something for free for the rest of your life, what would you want to do?
- What would you do if you cannot fail; if there are no limitations in money, resources, time or networks?
- What do you want to achieve in 1 year from now? 3 years? 5 years? 10 years?
- How important are these goals to you?
- What if these goals are doubled? Tripled? Magnified by 10? How would you feel? Would you prefer to achieve these or your previous goals?
- Who are the people who have achieved similar goals? What can you learn from them?
- Are you putting any parts of your life on hold? Why?
- What’s the top priority in your life right now?
- What are you doing about it?
- If you were to die tomorrow, what would be your biggest regret?
- For each experience you are in: What are the biggest things you have learned?
- How can you do this better the next time?
- If you have 1 million dollars, what would you do with it?
- Do you love your job?
- What is your ideal career?
- How can you start creating your ideal career starting today?
- What is your ideal home like?
- What is your ideal physical look?
- What is your ideal life?
- What do you fear most in life?
- Is there anything you are running away from?
- Are you settling for less than you are worth? Why?
- What is your inner dialogue like?
- What limiting beliefs are you holding on to?
- Are they helping you achieve your goals?
- If not, is it time to let them go?
- What empowering beliefs can you take on to help you achieve your goals?
- What bad habits do you want to break?
- What good habits do you want to cultivate?
- What’s the biggest step you can take now that will create the biggest result?
- What would you want to say to yourself 1 year in the future? 3 years? 5 years? 10 years?
- Where are you living right now – the past, future or present?
- Are you living your life to the fullest right now?
- What is the meaning of life?
- What is your purpose in life? Why do you exist? What is your mission?
- What drives you?
- What are the times you are most inspired, most motivated, most charged up?
- What were you doing at the times?
- How can you do more of that starting today?
- How can you change someone’s life for the better today?
- Who are the 5 people you spend the most time with?
- Are these people enabling you or holding you back?
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- What qualities do you want to embody?
- Where can you meet people who embody these qualities?
- Who inspire you the most?
- How can you be like them?
- What is your ideal life partner? How is he/she like?
- Where can you find him/her?
- How can you get to know him/her?
- Are you afraid of letting others get close to you? Why?
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- Who are the most important people in the world to you?
- Are you giving them the attention you want to give?
- How can you spend more time with them starting today?
- What kind of person do you enjoy spending time around?
- How can you be this person to others?
- Who do you want to be like in 1 year? 3 years? 5 years? 10 years?
- Who are your mentors in life? (formal or informal)
- What is one thing you’re going to do differently after reading this article?
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本篇由金博士翻譯
0:開篇
1:整體認識Getting Result敏捷方法
2:用三個故事驅動你的一週
3:用三個故事驅動你的一天
4:放棄一些事情
5:使用熱圖標識出重要事情
6:週五回顧,找到三件作的好以及三件須要改善的事情
7:設定邊界值和緩衝
8:清空大腦,釋放壓力
9:使用必須、應該、能夠來肯定天天事情的優先級
10:發揮你的優點
11:高效能、慢生活
12:效率角色-你是啓動者仍是完成者?
13:如何對事情付諸行動
14:要事第一
15:讓本身處於寧靜狀態
16:使用隱喻來激勵本身
17:找出高效時間,並利用它來處理重要事情
18:給每週增長創造性時間
19:你在爲誰作事?
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